Teenage drinking is a real problem

 

Teenage drinking is very real — unfortunately, parents may not be able to see the warning signs that most teenagers will exhibit. Binge drinking is the most common type of drinking problem for people under 21. Recognizing and understanding that your child may be abusing alcohol can take months of arguments, denial and failed attempts to get them to stop drinking. You may have tried on several occasions to talk with your teenager about your concerns, but have made no progress. One of the main symptoms of alcoholism is having an uncontrollable desire to drink, along with being a progressive disease. Some symptoms of alcoholism include: • Neglecting responsibilities. Failing grades, skipping classes or problems at home can be indicators of a drinking problem. • Taking risks while intoxicated. Excessive drinking can lead to impaired cognitive functioning such as driving while drunk or having unprotected sex. • Problems with maintaining relationships. Fighting with family members or friends and beginning to isolate yourself from activities can also be a sign of alcoholism. Alcoholism can affect not only the person drinking, but also family and friends of the alcoholic. It is imperative for the alcoholic to recognize just how drinking is affecting their life. This may be difficult for them to do as most alcoholics are in denial about even having a drinking problem. Some tips to help someone with a drinking problem include: • Talking to your loved one about your concerns. Attempt to discuss your concerns with your loved one but try to stay away from giving advice. Tell them how their behaviors are affecting your life. • Offer to get them help. Tell them that you will get them professional help if they are willing. Talk to them when they are sober and have not been drinking. • Set boundaries with your loved one. It is important to set emotional and physical boundaries with the alcoholic. Do not “enable” them to continue drinking or support their drinking behaviors. Examples include: giving them money, letting them live at your house or being around them when they are drinking. • Provide support. Let your loved one know that you are there for them but will not support their drinking habits. Tell them that you love them no matter what and will help them if they are willing to get help.